Question: Is The Age Gap Sexy?

This can be a touchy and controversial subject so I'm curious and truly want to know you're opinions.

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Today is a day of questions for me. Is it sexy for an older woman to actually have the attraction for younger men? I mean, I don't know who my listeners are. I'm guessing that most of them are men, and I don't know the age range that they're part of. But men, my listeners, do you look for the younger women? The inexperienced ones, the ones who, well, sometimes in this generation I'm noticing are very loud about their inexperience with the world. I want to say that also about the men as well, too, the younger men. But what I'm noticing is that as an older woman, I'm having a lot of the younger generation pursue me. Men and women. But because I am not bisexual or a lesbian, even in this June pride month, I don't know how to deal with the younger generation pursuing me. I mean, I just had the younger bisexual girl said, Listen, I just want to be friends, okay? And come on, we both know that it's not what she wants. She wants more than that. And I'm guessing she thinks that I will fall for it and answer her email and say, okay, well, since you just want to be friends, let's start all over again. And then she would start sending me her barrage of nude photos again. And again, I'm not trying to insult my male listeners, but I guess she thinks to some degree that I would be fooled like some of the men who maybe she encounters, or the boys her age that she encounters. But is it wrong or is it less sexy when an older woman decides to turn her eyes to younger men? I'm just curious. When I was live camming actively, I would have twenty-something males actively pursue me, even 18-year-olds. Some of them were well, they said they were 18, some of them were 14, and they would sit they would tell me that they couldn't stop looking at me and how I turned them on and how they just want to be with me. And then they would send their photos and just to look at their sweet baby faces and then to look at their cocks, which were huge. And again, the age would range and I mean it would be of legal age, I would assume, but I couldn't help but be attracted to it, to the essence, the energy that they were bringing. But then in my logical mind, I would think to myself, why am I looking at them like this? No, I don't look at them like that, 18-year-olds. But I was reminded about this one man who he ended up telling me he was 28. But when he first reached out to me, he wrote that he was 18 years old, and that I was different as far as the energy that I was given, that he loved the fact that I could talk to him, talk to the audience and be funny, and he loved the energy that I was given. So he wanted to be able to get to know me a little bit better. With that, I responded and we became kind of pen pals on the Jasmine site. This was, by the way, the guy who I contacted later and was kicked off from because I started to develop feelings for this man. But he would constantly just touch a part of me, figuratively speaking, that I realized that I guess I wanted to be fed. And when I would send him videos or footage or pictures, I wouldn't charge him for it because I was thinking he was 18. He probably still lived with his family, with his parents, and he didn't have that much money. And here I am making allowances for this 18-year-old who said he was 18 when he first reached out to me on an adult site, and I was getting totally turned on. By the way, I am nowhere near 18 years old. And one day he asked me why I kept giving him free footage, and I told him it was because I didn't think he had that much money, and I really did like him. And he explained to me, no, he was 28 years old, and he would prefer to pay for the footage. And I had to screenshot where he told me he was 18, and then I felt like a dirty old woman. Oh my gosh. But what is it about that energy? What is it about that energy? I mean, by no means, by no means do I identify as someone who is attracted to teenagers. I am not one. This man, however, was 18 years old. He's legal, but I guess I was torn because I found a part of me that was just smitten by his energy. So anyway, like I said, um the safe number that I realize that these men who are reaching out to me that kind of pique my interest, they're in their twenties something. And even in their twenties, I have to think to myself, what is it that I want? Is it the vitality? I mean, I have a lot of energy. Maybe that's why they're attracted to me. But why would I respond? They have nothing to offer me. I mean, even if we were to have sex, I have to think to myself, would they be fulfilling? I mean, I don't know. I don't remember being in my twenties and being sexually satisfied by anyone my age at that time. So are they looking for that cougar mama type? Even though my energy wants to be able to yield to a strong man, I guess I have to think, am I ready to be that kind of energy? And I don't know. I'm I still had to get used to the fact that when I went to the nudist camp, I allowed myself to be adored and worshipped. I still had to get used to that. I guess I'm so used to men who say that they will make sure that I come first, but I had to get myself off first. They didn't do anything to do that, they didn't explore my body the way I wanted it to be explored. I would have to find a way to please myself with their bodies, and sometimes their bodies were just out of shape. They were nothing to play with, nothing to adore. But because that was what I had in front of me, I had to make do. The more I think about it, the more I can honestly laugh and go, ugh. No. No, it wasn't reciprocal. And I hopefully, my listeners, hopefully, no one's offended by that and by the body types that I'm describing. I'm just saying that in my past, I am so used to the men who did not have the ideal body type, but would want for me to get myself off on them. And then they would pleasure themselves. Or let's say they did have an impressive size penis, they would still have me sit on top of them and ride them until I would get off before they would have me get on my knees in doggy style position, and they would thrust inside of me and pound me. And that was our session, you know.

SPEAKER_01 12:17

I don't know.

SPEAKER_00 12:18

Anyway, with these younger men, I haven't explored any of them yet. But there is one man who I don't I'm not sure if it's a twin flame type of energy, but I definitely do think about him, and this is in my real life as well, where he is younger than I am. As a matter of fact, he turned to 27 just recently, and ironically, even though I'm older than he is, he was in a position of authority because he was my former boss. And somewhere in there, when I would notice that he would stare at me, when he would call out for me and my attention, somewhere in there I started to notice him. I noticed him looking at me. I noticed all of those things, and that's where I guess I came home and I would start dreaming about him and fantasizing over him. Well, now that I've turned my attention to him, I see that his insecurity is shining through. He said that I think so highly of him, and he he's really not that impressive. Which is amazing because as these young men pursue me, when I finally stop and turn around to notice them and give them the energy that they want, that's when I notice that they back up.

SPEAKER_01 14:24

They become insecure and tell me that they really aren't worth all of that energy that I want to give them.

SPEAKER_00 14:40

So what is it? As you can hear, I have a lot of questions. What is it? I mean, is it sexy for an older woman to go after these younger men? I mean, clearly I look amazing. I have the vitality, I have the energy. I mean, what is it? I'm just curious. And as an older woman, like I said, I don't remember being in my twenties and being sexually satisfied by anyone my age range. So now that I'm older and these twenties-somethings are pursuing me, I don't know if I want to have to train anyone. I don't know if I want that. And as for the men who are in my age range, this is something that I always used to tell my men and the live camming sites: when you do the big reveal and show me your penis, you don't have to make it an issue where you're looking at my response. You don't have to lead with my response. You have a penis, definitely use it. You have a penis. No matter what the size is, understand that if you have a woman in front of you, play on that. You don't have to do a big reveal to wait for my response on how small you are or how big you are. Just be. You don't have to have yourself be trapped in this mental, this mental anguish that you seem to suffer through for you to have ED. Especially if it's not some type of health-related issue that you have this ED, but it's a psychological thing based on insecurity and fear. You don't have to lead with that energy, my older men or my men who have a smaller penis. But I have to go back and ask you, is it sexy for an older woman to allow herself to be pursued by younger men? Is it sexy when she turns around and entertains that energy? I'll keep you posted. Have a great day. One more thing before I go. Remember you can find me on premium.chat forward slash Nat loves you. Oh, Nat loves you. That's L-U-V-S, the letter U. Nat loves you. Okay. You can chat with me privately. We can have conversations, video chats, and for some of them there are flat charges, or you can go by the minute. But yeah, let's let's discuss. I'd love to hear from you.